So last year, I made a modest list of things, that were next to impossible not to reach (even though I did manage to miss one). This year, I’m aiming a bit higher, and I’m going to try and use this space to help me keep some of those goals. So, here are my goals:
Have a fun wedding.
March 13 is coming very quickly, and Alan and I are a bit bogged down with a lot of details that we’d pushed off until after Christmas. Turns out they can’t be put off any longer. I’m trying to get invitations done and sent out right now, as well as having my dress altered, finishing touches put on the ceremony, writing our vows, getting rings, and the list just keeps going. I’m not used to being the person responsible for an entire event, and at times it seems like it’s more expense and frustration than it’s really worth. I think it’s important for me to remember that we’re having this party to celebrate our relationship with our families and friends, and not to get bogged down in the details that nobody is super concerned about. I’m started to get excited about having it done and over with, so that Alan and I can move on to our next adventure, whatever that might be.
Reach some weight loss goals
This one honestly doesn’t have anything to do with the wedding. It’s been a struggle for me to lose and keep weight off for my entire teenage / adult life. I fully expect that it will continue to be a challenge forever. However, this year, I’m going to make it my goal to lose 35 pounds. I know this is an achievable goal if I can only stick with it. In this respect, I will post once a week a roundup of all the things I have done to maintain my fitness, as well as where I stand on weight loss (with a base line of last week). I know that there are no magic hammers I can use to solve this problem, and that instead it will be a gradual change of eating and exercise habits. I am confident that I can do this with the proper motivation and support.
Here’s how I’m going to reach my goals:
- I have joined Weight Watchers. I will be tracking points and following their eating programs.
- I no longer have two hours of commuting time to get to work every day. My new workplace isn’t near any fast food or corner stores. This is already making a difference.
- I will go to the gym three to four times per week. I will participate in the group exercise classes, as I know they will help keep me motivated for the time I am at the gym
- I will not get give up when I get discouraged. I will call upon my support structures to listen to me whine and then to get me focused once more on my goals.
Finish Glaxar’s blanket before March 13th
And by ‘finish’, what I mean is have all the quilt blocks made and pieced together, forming the top of the blanket. I will then have to seek outside assistance in actually building a blanket out of it. As of last night, I have twenty blocks finished, and I think I was aiming for about 28 blocks. There are a couple of blocks that are bad and will probably have to be redone, so I have about ten more blocks to make. Then I have to piece them all together and put borders on it. I’ve been managing about two to three blocks per week, so at that pace I should be in good shape to complete the quilt in time. Yay!
Read 50 books
I like reading. I have a lot of books I haven’t read yet. I got like, 12 books for Christmas. I should read a lot of books this year. Right now I’m tackling my first Margart Atwood book, and enjoying it thoroughly.
Smaller goals
- Never go to bed with dirty dishes
- Cook something new every week
- Win New Super Mario Bros. Wii. Alan and I are playing our way through it and are very bad at co-operative play. It’s a different way of thinking, and we are still working out how it should happen.
- Get my passport. Seriously, how do I not have it? Guess I’m just lazy
- Take more pictures
- Go on more adventures
- Blog because I want to, not out of any feeling of obligation
- Reinstate pizza and laundry night. I hate doing laundry on the weekend.
I think that’s the list. I know it’s a little rambling and about a week late, but I hope you enjoyed it.



